2021.09.19 19:50 Ok-Road-2354 No one can handle my brothers (35M) emotional unloading after his break up?
My brother was in a relationship with a woman for 5 years. it was his first relationship and they got engaged. The woman, lets call her Mary (29F), has always had an issue with my family. She says we make her feel left out but we do everything we can to make her feel comfortable.
There was a hiccup in the beginning of their relationship (about 2 weeks into it) when my brother (30 at the time) snuck her into my parent's house at night to sleep with her. My mom caught them and confronted them in the morning and got really mad. She said they were both being disrespectful and childish and insulted her too. Keep in mind my parents are very conservative, this has always been the rule in the house and all 3 of my mom's kids know that.
Since then, my mom has apologized to Mary dozens of times, saying she should have only gotten mad at her son. Mary has used this as a way to split my brother from the rest of us, now having an issue with my sister who suggested this relationship wasn't healthy (long story) and he went and told Mary what my sister said.
Mary decided to break up with my brother now and he's emotionally unloading on me. He spent 6 hours on the first day telling me way too much about their relationship, even their lack of sex life. I listen and give advice when needed but it's like he's not even listening. He's running in circles with what he's saying. It has been two weeks now. I told him this is too heavy for me especially with my own mental health issues with my new job. He said if I don't listen to him then he will get back to her. Later, he blamed me and said I should have added her back on Facebook (keep in mind I did add her originally but when she started fighting with my family she removed all of us) and my brother was mad I didnt try to add her again. He said they wouldn't be in this situation if I added her back and made more of an effort. BUT I DID. I constantly messaged her on every holiday or when she was on vacation I would ask how her trip was. She never made an effort with me. It's like it was my job to keep her happy.
Now that I said I wasn't going to help him right now because he's coming off as manipulative, he's putting all the emotional baggage on my mom and dad. They are in their late 60's and he has been going on for weeks. He also hasn't cut contact with Mary and they talk for an hour on the phone almost every day.
He has a therapist he talks to once a week who told him to break up for good with her but he is still wanting to get back with her.
What can I do to help everyone out?
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2021.09.19 19:50 memecchisu 2000s isekai
I'm looking for this anime where two schoolgirls got transported to a world inhabited by small people... probably elves? I think the small people were at war with another nation of small people. The two schoolgirls, iirc, looked very uhh normal. The tiny people are cute and round and i think they all have hats.
I watched it on AXN maybe in the early-mid 2000s? TIA.
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2021.09.19 19:50 thejpfan A wing crashing through a super star destroyer bridge
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2021.09.19 19:50 Illustrious-Phase-48 Wait a minute..I know you
2021.09.19 19:50 TheHorizonsBand watch
2021.09.19 19:50 dlwatson Millennium Falcon Asteroid Run | Blackmagic Fusion Tutorial Teaser
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2021.09.19 19:50 Gigliovaljr How should I focus my research as the US?
As the US I try to be a jack of all trades, trying to have the best tech of any given time. But I have found my research to be unfocused, thus I find myself sometimes not having the right tech or tech level that I need.
I'd like to be more focused on my research during each year in order to be more efficient. What should I focus on what year in terms of naval, air, infrantry, support, armor etc? When do I switch my research to doctrines? When do I stop researching some branch and just say "good enough"?
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2021.09.19 19:50 xAstray_ Ready to be downvoted.
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2021.09.19 19:50 magnuze Rudiger Intentional Stamp on Emerson Royal
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2021.09.19 19:50 omushroom Definitely a bit out of date but can I get an (ID)?
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2021.09.19 19:50 Psypher1020 Milkdrop Back: Hit The Road Jack & Ludacris [ravedj]
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2021.09.19 19:50 SandorClegane_AMA How the CleganeBowl performed so much better than the Mycah meme, by key social media engagement metrics.
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2021.09.19 19:50 8Deer-JaguarClaw Non-food items that can be stored via dry canning? (vacuum-sealed jars)
I just got all my stuff together to start dry canning rice, beans, pasta, and other dry foods. But what non-food items are you guys dry canning?
I was thinking maybe matches would be a good idea to dry can. They'd wouldn't oxidize and with a desiccant pack they stay very dry. I noticed that my stash of wooden matches are mostly useless now after about 10 years of storage in my "bunker box".
Any suggestions for non-food items that could be dry canned are appreciated. Thanks! This community rules!
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2021.09.19 19:50 CrustiestSpy735 Need some analysis from the master race
I’m building my first pc and was considering buying a GeForce 2060. I decided to upgrade to a card around 800 dollars and found this. GeForce 3060 I’m a little suspicious about why it’s only 730$ though so I was wondering if anyone could tell me if this is card is worth it or not. (Any recommendations for other 800$ cards is also welcome) 👍
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2021.09.19 19:50 Grievous_my_guy Dear people making LFG posts: Pirate Legend doesn't mean much!
I've seen many group posts put Pirate Legend as a requirement, and that's okay. Just putting that so you can get people who know what they're doing shouldn't be a problem. Something that is annoying however, is when people who make group posts take it a bit too far...
At the moment I'm about 3-5 levels away from reaching 50 on each base faction. I have a little over 200 hours logged on the game but I didn't spend much of that time doing long voyages, mostly messing around. Someone who's even been playing for a few weeks likely knows how to angle sails, steer, do certain voyages, shoot cannons, and fight Skeletons even if they're not Pirate Legend.
I cannot tell you how many times I've joined a group post and explained I have 200+ hours and I'm a few voyages away from getting Pirate Legend, then I've been turned down specifically for not being a Pirate Legend. Just today I was declined from joining a group post because the host was worried about having "carrying problems".
In conclusion, Pirate Legend doesn't mean much, you can get it in two or three weeks if you try enough. Its not some big achievement showing somebody is a god at the game, its simply a milestone the game sets down to give players something to work towards. That's all.
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2021.09.19 19:50 Blunts_Ahoy This win was action packed!!!
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2021.09.19 19:50 HanjiSimp44 Scene from the end credits where everyone is watching the sunrise
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2021.09.19 19:50 History_Geek123 Vote ABH for ‘92 Fed-Rep Nomination!
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2021.09.19 19:50 themilkyone My variegated schefflera made a conjoined twin/ mitten-shaped leaf.
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2021.09.19 19:50 2019noodles Finding this bug too many times in my home! Should I be scared?
2021.09.19 19:50 AlarmSheep [US-GA] [H] $1300 Paypal [W] 90x nixie black switches, Nixie white switch.
2021.09.19 19:50 ArthurFromman Everyone complaining about Moe
For this post I’m talking about Saskatchewan.
Ask yourself, SERIOUSLY, Do you really we’d be where we are because of Moe? No, it is because of the Anti-Vaxxers. He has pushed for people to get vaccinated from early on. If the anti-vaxxers had gotten vaccinated, would we have the numbers that we have now? No one will ever know. But instead, they decided to prolong the pandemic punishing the people that did get vaccinated, punishing the health care system, asking why they (or their loved ones) never got admitted into the hospital because all the beds are used up (because of people that Didn’t get the vaccine are there).
They want a scapegoat. So who easier to turn to than the leader of the province. Everyone wants to turn things political. When this whole pandemic didn’t need to be all about politics, just the health care system.
Out of curiosity…
How many people here have gotten smallpox? My guess is next to none. Know why? Vaccines.
How many people here have went on a trip and not gotten Hep A (or B, or C, or of the crazies, Hep Z), because your were required to get Twinrix. Know why? Vaccines.
Now, stop blaming Moe and any other leaders and go get vaccinated
And cue the downvotes in 3….2…..1……
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2021.09.19 19:50 liyo11 Maybe we should be doing this? I saw a few posts of someone feeding their cats like this and looked at cats on the internet and saw these pictures.. and it makes so much sense.. sorry if it’s to graphic..
2021.09.19 19:50 D34D_M1ND i am a 45 year old man with heavy balls that needs help masturbating (r/teenagers)
2021.09.19 19:50 VinniKrg izi malia
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